BREAKAWAY BEAR
BREAKAWAY BEAR
Break away from the current fray. When tempers cool, then have your say.
UNDERSTANDING UNICORN
UNDERSTANDING UNICORN
Understand what makes a bully tick. Your brain is better than a big old stick.
LISTENING LYNX
LISTENING LYNX
Listen with your heart, as well as your ears. Behind loud anger, hear doubts and fears.
LOVING LION
LOVING LION
Love the doer, but not the deed. Look for the good, the inner seed.
YIN YANG YAK
YIN YANG YAK
Opportunity springs from crisis. Opposites, they energize us.
Let your Mouse roll on over and sniff out the wisdom of the BULLYPROOF Shields
BULLYPROOF LIFE SKILLS
The BULLYPROOF program uses ten animal characters to teach more powerful tools than intimidation or violence for getting what you really need and want.
Bust-out from the fighting trap. Bullying may seem to work in the short run, but in the end it won't get you what you want. For true power, learn to use your mind, your voice and your heart
Understand that others have legitimate needs, hurts, and fears as do you. Understand what's triggering your own hot buttons - and the other guy's.
Listen behind the angry words to hear unmet needs. "I hear you saying ____, is that right?" Repeat until they know they're heard. Ask them to do the same. There is more power in listening than in lashing out.
Let Love into your Heart. Just for being a human being, you deserve to be loved. Look for the good in others. Get what you need by appealing to the strengths of a person, not by making him feel week.
Yin Yang is the sign for balance. Balance the opposite feelings and thoughts within you. Embrace opposites in the situation. Turn any energy directed against you into a positive force for you.
Picture a positive image of what you really want. By visualizing an outcome, you make it more likely to happen. A picture is more powerful than a punch! See it, feel it in your mind and you'll attract it to you.
Respect for yourself and others. Bullying others is a pitiful attempt to extract false respect. If you respect others, maybe they'll respect you for real. Don't "dis" others by labeling them. No put downs, put ups!
Originate a win-win way. You can actually win more and keep more if you make everyone a winner. Don't make a loser or we'll all be worse off.
Oversee the chaotic fray. Overcome evil with good and falsehood with truth. Use the Force - your inner strength - to rise above the situation.
Face your fears. Be brave enough to face yourself, to step outside your mask and show your true feelings. Be brave enough to tackle your true mission, your hero's journey. Fear attracts attack, a brave stance repels it.
PICTURING PORPOISE
PICTURING PORPOISE
Picture the outcome you'd like to see. Attract the Bully into a new way to be.
RESPECTFUL RABBIT
RESPECTFUL RABBIT
He dominates others to gain recognition
Hop higher with respect as your ammunition
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ORIGINATING ORANGUTAN
ORIGINATING ORANGUTAN
Originate a win-win way.
Don't make a loser or we'll all pay.
OVERSEEING OWL
OVERSEEING OWL
Oversee the chaotic fray.
From a higher vision, a wiser way.
FEARLESS FOX
